Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Update!

I am happy happy happy!!!!!

Dad just called and he said he talked to Justin last night.  He told Justin that he's noticed Justin doesn't seem very happy and is always in his room, but when he comes home he's with his friends and happy.  Maybe he needs to move back where his friends are.  Justins response was pure relief!  Dad said right away Justin was quick to say ok and agreed!  I think that Justin didn't want to hurt his Papa's feeling by wanting to move out, and my dad didn't want to hurt Justin's or my feelings by wanting the same thing.  It's a win-win for everyone!!!!

The best thing I did was write that letter to my dad :)

2 comments:

leslie said...

AWESOME!!! So happy for you!!!

Brit-Man said...

You have always had the ability to be what people need and also the ability to often know what is best for them as well.

One thing you don't need to do now, is start to question what you are and can be as a person :-).

You have spent years giving your heart and beauty to people around you and that will never change, because you are fundamentally a truly beautiful Lady and a real light to people.

Trust in yourself in times like this and believe in all that you are and mean, because when it comes down to it, you ARE capable and you WILL make the right choice(s), I've no doubt about that.

Keep you chin up and keep smiling my friend, because the world is always a richer place because of you and so is your family and those that know you in any way.

You're a terrific person Colette.

THANK YOU and don't worry okay :-). Your Son will find the right path and it's okay to want to be there, but it's okay to change the boundaries a bit now, because it won't suddenly make you a bad person, for being a little more firm if needs be.

You'll find the right balance between being a Mother, a Teacher and the bit of distance you need to not get too involved, because I know you'll do it.

You're unique in your own way, but you've proven for years just how beautifully human you are and now in a someways challenging situation, that will prove to be the case again.

Give your Son what you can, but not too much okay :-). He will understand that it can't be like it was, because if you were going to be a big dissapointment, you'd have done that from day one.

BIG PAT ON THE BACK and very best wishes.

If you need to talk, e-mail me anytime.

GOOD LUCK Colette and THANKS again for just being you. It's not forgotten and it does mean a lot.

BIG RESPECT.

:-) :-).

Matt